How To Win Over Your True Love

valentine's day tips

Flowers? No.

Chocolates? Cliche.

A store bought card? Pack your bags.

The one thing that will “Wow” and “Wooo” your loved one on Valentine’s day– better yet, any day when an overt demonstration of affection is not expected–does not require talent, or even money. It just requires the heart.

Memories are funny things. Our brains choose to remember some things while forgetting others. I always remember my dad writing cheesy poems for my mom. I didn’t understand why back then, but do now.

Writing a poem–no matter how cheesy, corny, or un-rhyming it is–is a sure fire way to your companion’s heart. It shows them you spent your most precious capital on them–time. It takes great effort to put down how you feel on paper, and trust me, it doesn’t matter how poetic or pedestrian it may come across, the fact that you even wrote it down in the first place will pay huge dividends in your relationship for years to come.

So pull out that pen and immortalize how much they mean to you by putting it on paper.

p.s. You want to really make their heart melt? Be sure to include references to first dates, inside jokes, etc. That’s money right there.

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My Valentine’s Day poem for my wife:

There’s a love that speaks deep–
Speaks deep from home,
A home with four chambers
That to some is unknown,
But not to two lovers
Whose paths crossed one day
While searching for “The One”
A few thousand miles away.

When God wants two people
To find one another
To be a husband and wife,
A father and mother,
He plants in those chambers
A seed that will grow,
That will last them through lifetimes,
Through the highs and the lows,
And as it’s roots dig in deeper,
They will ne’er go amiss,
And each morning’s greeting…

Will be true love’s first kiss.

 

Valentine's Day Poem poetry

Chocolates sweeten any poem.


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Why God, Why? (A poem for the heavy heart) | Writing Exercise

Why God

Writing exercise: Wax philosophical.

My friend’s nephew was mugged by four men in the Philippines. They brutally beat him in the head with a hammer. He died from his injuries a few days later. He was only 21.

Life is full of unanswered questions. Today’s writing exercise is to create dissonance and resolution. Those terms are typically used in music composition, and it’s what gives those musical moments we love so much such power.

It’s about creating tension then providing relief. But in this exercise, I wanted to take it further than writing a who-done-it then revealing who-did-it.

I love asking questions that take the mind deeper. The entertainment is the sugar, the underlying questions are the medicine.

So, get philosophical. Take a current event that seems “answerless”–whether personal, or in the news–and immerse yourself in that question (the dissonance), but then rise to the surface with a possible a way out, or a little hope (the resolution).

Good luck, and happy writing!

Why God, Why?

Why God, why? Is a question we ask often
As we look upon the innocent draped in their coffin.
When disaster strikes, why doesn’t He stop it?
If he created the world, why sit back and drop it?

When he sees us crestfallen, why doesn’t He care?
If he sees what is coming, why does He stand there
Just watching us suffer as we clean up the rubble
Of the storms in our lives that give us all trouble?

Why God, why? is the phrase we all ask
To this God who’s in hiding unwilling to unmask
His purpose behind what is making us sad.
If he’s the Great God of Good, then why is there bad?

Why are the answers always unsatisfying
Amid all the disease, all the heartbreaks, the lying?
Well, maybe that question is not our biggest problem
As we sift through life’s puzzles finding some way to solve them.

Maybe, if we stop asking in the Spirit of accusation
And instead ask “Why God?” in the form of supplication,
Then the heavens might open to this God you once knew
And answer your “Why God” as he weeps there with you.

 


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Click here to join JR on Goodreads for Q&A’s, quotes and more. Read his interview with Smashwords here.

I Need Therapy | Writer’s A.D.D.

disorganized writing

I hate it.

I hate it I hate it I hate it.

“Do you need this?”

…she asks, referring to the random sticky notes found throughout our bedroom with half-scratched notes for half-baked ideas for new creative projects.

“What about all these?”

…she asks again. This time she points to stacks of yellow legal pads filled with story ideas and marketing strategies for unfinished books. 

If you’re anything like me, you suffer from what I call: Writer’s A.D.D.

How many of you have a story you’ve started, but, for one reason or another–you’ve quit?

Did you get bored with writing that book, too busy; did it get too hard; did you lose faith, or did you cheat on it with a more attractive story line, only to find it was just like all the rest?

No matter what the reason, I have a solution that may help. Continue reading

As the Storm Rages On

Storm hope

There is hope.
There is always hope.

The Night–always darkest before the Dawn.
The Day–always clearer after the Storm.
The Music–always louder at concert’s end.
Then it’s over and Quiet sets in.

There is not always Light at the end of every tunnel.
Some simply dead end.
But that doesn’t mean you stay there,
Huddle down and cry there.
Just turn around and walk back to the Light again.

We choose the way we point our feet,
T’ward destiny or despair.
And as long as we walk destiny’s path–forward–
Hope will always be there.

But in the meantime…

On what ground will you stand as the Storm rages on?
What have you built for It’s hail to fall upon?
While in the darkest of Night
Do not put down your Light,
For as you turn t’ward the east–there she is!

The Dawn.

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The Curse of The Redlined

Writing exercise: Rhyming 

How does a joke turn into something amazing? This is how:

My songwriting buddy, Chris, came down for a visit over the holiday. One morning, we busted out two songs in an hour and a half! He emailed me this morning asking me to send him one of the verses we had rewritten.

As good friends do, we joke with one another over email, but my joke turned into something different.

After two decades of writing songs, my mind tends to think in verse when I create. (Evidenced by the nearly 15,000 word novelette, The Tale of Nottingswood, written entirely in verse. Read the first 28 pages for yourself here.)

I used to have a “purist” attitude about my writing. I believed the only resource that a writer should have at their disposal is their mind. It wasn’t until I read an interview with my favorite composer and lyricist, Stephen Sondheim, that my eyes were opened.

He admitted to using a rhyming dictionary.

GASP!

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How To Find Time To Write

For those who love to put language on paper–or on screens–“how to find time to write” may be the most difficult question to answer; perhaps even more difficult than calculating the origins of the universe itself.

But I have done it. I have broken the code.

So, allow me to break the news to you softly:

You’ll never find time. There isn’t any to find. Sorry, Charlie.

crying meme you hurt my feelings

When you approach writing from the perspective of finding time, you’ll never find it. Instead, you’ll find frustration.

Serious writers don’t find time; they make time.

You don’t have time to write?

Well, you may not have the flexibility, or the resources, like many mainstream authors to hole yourself up at a beach house, a friends house, a cabin–minimizing all distractions–for a week to a month…,

…but there are things you can do. Continue reading

For the Writer: How To Cope When Frustration Sets In

A few days ago, I asked an author friend of mine about the posts he likes to read. Aside from How To Properly Articulate Ghetto Slang, he gave me the following topics:

I’m going to dedicate a post to each topic.

Last week, I addressed How to network with other writers.

Today we’ll discuss:

How To Not Get Down When Things Are Frustrating Continue reading